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I published a post yesterday on emotional intelligence vs intelligence quotient, where I asked, ‘which is the best?’ So, in this post, am going go to let you know what emotional intelligence is really is.

Emotional intelligent, otherwise called Emotional Quotient (EQ) is the capacity to reason about emotions and emotional information, and of emotions to enhance thought, according to John Mayer, Ph.D.

Emotional intelligence is the ability to identify and manage your own emotions and the emotions of others.

According to psychologytoday, it has three skills: emotional awareness; the ability to harness emotions and apply them to tasks like thinking and problem solving; and the the ability to manage emotions, which includes regulating your own emotions and cheering up or calming down other people.

People with high EI (Emotional Intelligence) were believed to be able to solve a variety of emotional-related problems accurately and quickly. High EI can actually perceive emotions in faces.

They understand the meanings that emotion convey: They know that angry people can be dangerous, that happiness means someone wants to join with others, and that someone wants to join with others, and that sad people may prefer to be alone. High EQ people also know how to manage others emotions.

What EI Is Not
Emotional intelligence is not; agreeableness, optimism, happiness, calmness and motivation. According to John Mayer, those qualities have little to do with intelligence, little to do with emotions and nearly nothing to do with EI

Benefits of Higher EI
1. People with higher EI find it easier to form and maintain interpersonal relationships and to fit in to group situations.

2. Better at understanding their own psychological state and that of others.

According to skillsyouneed, emotional intelligence is one part of human psyche that we can develop improve by learning and practising new skillls.

Daniel Goleman in his book “working with emotional intelligence” went further to divide EI into Personal and Social competences.

The Personal competence are: Self-awareness, Self-regulation, Motivation. The Social competences are: Empathy (understanding others, developin others), Social skills such as Influence, communication, conflict, leadership, collaboration and cooperation.

Recommendation
Having read and known what emotional intelligence is, it is now your job to develop your emotional intelligence to function optimally in your society, work or at home.

Further Reading
Working with emotional intelligence – Daniel Goleman

Personal Intelligence – John Mayer

Skillsyouneed

PsychologyToday


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What Makes The GREAT Great?

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Yeah, what makes the great great? You have seen their glories and you should read their stories. What makes the great great is a book written by Dennis P. Kimbro, Ph.D. I didn’t know about the book till I got to a bookshop In Lagos. Then I went in search of the 50th law of power by Robert Greene and 50cent. I couldn’t lay my hands on it and I asked the book seller to give me any nice book and he did give me What Makes The Great Great. I was glad he did.

“If you want to be great and successful, you must walk hand-in-hand with great and successful people.” Nido Qubein

The book tells of the stories of great men and women, how they were able able to stand out among the crowd and made names for themselves. The author introduces inspiring people who have achieved greatness in their own unique ways, then highlights the qualities each of us must develop before we reach our full potential.

Regardless of your definition of success, the book provides approach of turning your dream to reality. Greatness is guaranteed when you discover life’s true calling, live more courageously, access knowledge and creativity of your mind and embrace integrity in everything you do.

We all have seeds of greatness in us, what makes the great great provides the tools to discover and nourish those seeds.

Dennis P. Kimbro asked some great men and women the question, What makes the great great? See some of their responses below:

When Bill Pinkney [the first African-American to sail solo around the world and the forty-first man to do so] was asked what makes the great great, his response was; “Don’t wait! Now is the time to fulfil your destiny. We must act with courage; look forward with hope; and view life through a lens that defines what can be done rather than what cannot be done. If you are willing to work and never, never quit, you can make your dream come true.” What does this message mean to you?

Percy Sutton said, “If you have but one wish let it be for an idea.”

Robert E. Johnson, founder of Black Entertainment Television said, “Life is a grindstone, But whether it grinds you down or polishes you up depends upon what you are made of. And Rev Jesse Jackson added, “You may not be responsible for being knocked down, but you are certainly responsible for getting back up.”

What makes the great great

Henry Park of Park Sausage said, “In one hand I have a dream and in the other I have an obstacle. Tell me, which one grabs your attention?”

When Reverend Ike was asked what makes the great great, he said, “Do what I have done. “Open up a can! The world belongs to those who say I can.”

Mae Jemison, America’s first black female astronaut, when was asked what makes the great great said, “Greatness can be captured in a lifestyle. Life is God’s gift to you, style is what you make of it.”

Quincy Jones said, “Greatness occurs when your children loves you, when your critics respects you, and when you have peace of mind.”

Cornel West, an author and a professor said, “If you want to be great, you must serve willingly and love greatly.”

Oseola McCarty said, “Do as much as you can for as many as you can.”

And according to my observation, the greats are the people who understands what it means to simplify. They are the people who face one thing, face one passion and give in their best and do not believe in being jack of all trades. They are the people with determination and unshaken focus to do what they put before them. They are the people who have desires that burn. They are the people who say I will do this and never give up until they do. – SirPhren

Do you want to be great in that field you have chosen? Now you have just read about the opinions of some of the great men and women who have lived before us. Some of what they said is still valid and it will be nice to practice them.

There is only one thing that can stop you from being great. Do you want to know? Only you can stop you.

Robert Browning said, “When a man’s fight begins within himself, he is worth something.” And Bhagavad-Gita concluded, “A man’s own self is his friend, a man’s own self is his foe.”

If you really want to get your life together, this is one of the books you should probably read.

Which of these answers to what makes the Great great your favorite? Do you also know of other qualities of the Greats? Do share with me in the comment below.

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